Most couples, around 65%, in the modern era are ‘dual-career’ couples, and that figure continues to grow. The world is an increasingly expensive place, making economics a key reason for this upward global trend. However, as Petriglieri explains, economics is only part of the picture; egalitarianism is playing a role, with both men and women changing how they define meaning in their lives.
Research on couples, conducted by the author, has led her to believe that we pass through a distinct set of transitions on our route from work to retirement. These transitions, of which there are three, push couples to deal with their relationship through negotiation and prioritisation.
Through case studies, the reader is taken on an exploration of what can help dual-career couples maintain a healthy, successful relationship, whilst dealing with the rigours of a career. By looking at transition stages, triggers, coping mechanisms, conflicts and traps, Petriglieri has produced a quasi-self-help book, which provides genuine, evidence-based advice for the modern couple.
Although no self-help book is right for everyone, this particular example looks at couples as a unit rather than individuals striving for success by themselves. It eschews lowbrow spiritual advice, which has become so popular, in favour of anecdotal and tangible examples based in the real world. For that reason, it is worth reading if you are one half of a couple struggling to navigate your way through a busy modern life, balancing home and office.
Paul Arkwright
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